Tuesday, September 9, 2014

What about 23, T-Swift?

Taylor Swift did not adequately prepare me for what happens after 22.


Okay, so she did prepare me for the whole "we're happy, free, confused, and lonely at the same time." And when she called it magical? Nailed it. But she definitely didn't tell us that we would continue to own the title to the struggle-bus even after college, or that chocolate can no longer be its own food group... and apparently neither can top ramen... or that we'd be responsible for knowing what's inside the toolbox AND how to use it.

Regardless, Taylor did what no one had done before: she took an obscure age and made it completely fabulous... 20 was good. 21 was fun. 22 was exciting. 23 is better.

Being twenty-something means we are FINALLY at the age where we are fully and solely responsible for the people we become -- no excuses to preach or blaming to do. What we say and the things we know and the life we pursue is ours alone. It's halfway terrifying and COMPLETELY liberating. You want to be more intelligent? Go pick up a book. You want to be more selfless? Go volunteer. You want to be spontaneous? I daresay you should go hop in the car and drive to an unknown destination. (Heck, even put the music on shuffle if you're really feeling adventurous.) Whatever it is that you want to be, go be it. 

I know that someday my future holds the mortgage, the minivan, and the family, but right now I have this crazy, beautiful opportunity to be twenty-something.


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23 Adventures for a Fabulous 23
The Bucketlist
  1. Participate in a Color Run
  2. Try the 30-day paleo diet
  3. Go to Canada
  4. Read 12 classics in 12 months
  5. Go to a concert (or two, or three)
  6. Do 100 hours of community service
  7. Become familiar with a second language (Spanish? ASL?)
  8. Do the "Washington Bucketlist"
  9. Stop playing it safe with my hair ("A girl who changes her hair is about to change her life.")
  10. See Wicked
  11. Become an active alumni
  12. Run a half-marathon
  13. Find sustainable workouts
  14. Find the right shade of lipstick
  15. California beaches, anyone?
  16. Visit the Oregon zoo
  17. Start a blog -- oh hey....
  18. Compile an Oregon Bucketlist based solely on recommendations
  19. Do said Oregon Bucketlist
  20. Hand-make all Christmas gifts
  21. Re-learn to play the piano
  22. Go wine-tasting in new places
  23. Do at least five PNW hikes from here
Let this blog be a declaration and exploration that life is just as fabulous even after you stop dancing like you're 22... Hobey-ho. 23, here we go. :)

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